A year ago, everything changed.
Twelve months since that meeting, that email, that conversation — the moment my professional world shifted without warning.
Twelve months since I was made redundant — unfairly, abruptly, and in retaliation — in a way that did not reflect my work ethic, my contribution, or my character.
At the time, it felt like the ground had disappeared beneath me. It was destabilising, disorienting, and deeply personal.
But with distance, perspective arrived.
What once felt like an ending has revealed itself as an education — one that reshaped how I understand work, identity, protection, and self-worth in an unpredictable employment landscape.
Your Contract Holds More Power Than You Think
When work feels secure, the employment contract is something we sign and forget.
Until suddenly, it’s the only thing that matters.
In moments of unfair treatment or forced exit, you learn quickly:
- The clauses you skimmed over matter
- Notice periods matter
- Termination procedures matter
- Your rights matter most
Never assume your employer will automatically do the right thing.
Understanding your contract is not mistrust — it’s self-protection.
Your signature gets you the job.
Your understanding of it safeguards your stability.
The Modern Working World Is Less Stable Than We’re Taught
We grow up believing that loyalty, consistency, and commitment create security.
But today’s professional world shifts rapidly:
- Restructures can happen overnight
- Funding can change direction instantly
- “Business needs” can be used to justify almost anything
True stability no longer comes from an organisation — it comes from:
- Knowing your rights
- Knowing your value
- Knowing your options
This is not cynicism — this is empowerment.
Employers expect adaptability.
Employees must be equipped to adapt on their own terms too.
Redundancy Isn’t Always About You
It took time to accept this.
But the moment I understood that my redundancy reflected the employer and the organisation — something within me released.
I didn’t see it as punishment.
I started seeing it as redirection.
A clearing of space.
A doorway opening to something more aligned with who I really am.
Recovery Is Emotional, Not Just Practical
What takes time is:
- Rebuilding confidence
- Reframing identity
- Letting go of the version of your path you once imagined
Healing didn’t come from proving anything to anyone else.
It came from reclaiming my sense of self — quietly, steadily, intentionally.
And I did.
Stability Now Comes From Within
Twelve months ago, I felt powerless.
Today, I feel grounded.
Not because the world became predictable — it didn’t.
But because I stopped outsourcing my sense of security to someone else’s decisions.
I now know:
- My value is not determined by one employer
- My story does not end at someone else’s closing chapter
- My future is mine to rebuild — and redefine
The most important contract I will ever honour is the one I hold with myself:
To learn.
To adapt.
To rise.
To never allow my light to be diminished.
Twelve months on, I am still here — stronger, clearer, and more aligned than ever.
And if you are going through something similar, please hear this:
You are not starting again. You are starting wiser.
More informed.
More resilient.
And that — more than any job title — is something I now protect fiercely.
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